From the time we started dating up to the first few months of being married, my husband and I split the expenses equally dinners out, groceries, laundry, household maintenance, utilities, and even our wedding bills. This was my way of instilling equality in our relationship. I wanted to be fair. But being married made me realize that listing who gave what and how much is insane. We have common goals. More than anything, we should focus on making our relationship work, not making sure we contribute as much as the other person, down to the last centavo. One might earn more and give more, and that’s okay. Finances are just one facet of being married. There are still emotional, physical, and moral aspects. Money can’t compare to a big, warm hug after a bad day at work, or the kiligpower of an I love you in the middle of a stressful day. You can’t quantify those.
©THAT THE WOMAN IS ALWAYS RIGHT IS A MYTH.
Yeah, I’m right most of the time. But that doesn’t mean that my husband doesn’t get anything right. He definitely knows more about a lot of things I’m totally clueless about, and that makes him awesome. He’s a great racecar driver, mechanic, handyman, sculptor, writer, and public speaker. He’s even my very own fashion consultant. And when we do argue and he has a point?
I hate to admit it, but sometimes he’s right.
GUYS MISS THEIR FRIENDS LIKE WE DO.
Maybe even more than us, so I’ve tried to see it in the same way I miss my girls. I let him hang out with his friends as much as he wants to as long as it isn’t seven days a week. They’ll just play on the Nintendo or down a few bottles of beer, anyway. When he isn’t home, I get a chance to give myself some much-awaited and much-needed me-time. Win-win.
©HE’LL DO EVERYTHING I ASK IN HIS OWN TIME.
When I asked my husband to fix our air-conditioner, it took him six months to finally do it. I’ve come to realize that the more I push him to do something, the more he will resist. Honestly, he’ll do things anyway, just not on call. I’ve learned to draw comfort and satisfaction from knowing he will give me everything I demand although I’ve learned to manage my expectations for.. .s ometime in the future.
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